I have started a quest for something a little different in my life. This journey doesn’t really have an end date, but I do have a “goal date” for some kind of minor transformation and that date is July 17th - the day I officially, according to the government, start sharing my life with someone else. I figure that by the time four months tumbles around, I want to be a little bit more aware of myself. Cheesy? Well, I'm searching for cheese, baby, yes I am!

Why am I Searching in Stilettos? Look, I love shoes, and yes, I could write an entire blog about the new styles Holt Renfrew has out for their new season, but shoes are just a cover for what I'm actually searching for and that is a purpose in life. The shoe is the object I slip into while finding that purpose, and yes, most of the time it will be in a Stiletto, but I'm not searching FOR Stilettos, I'm searching IN Stilettos and there is a big difference.

What is this "quest" I am so ardently pursuing?

It is a quest for self-discovery. Yeah, sure, we think we know ourselves, but do we?

This is a journey to try some acts of individualism that I’ve never tried before. What could that be? Anything! I could travel to a weekend retreat by myself or eat raw meat, I don’t know, but it has to WAKE ME UP somehow. It is, for lack of a better word, a spiritual journey. I might fail, but no one is grading me. I would love a tender audience while I do this, so please share your thoughts and things that trigger your inner journey, and in return I'll try to be the best guide I can be.

Come travel with me on this moving and hopefully humorous path to self-discovery.